and what better way to ensure i don't get to all i *should* do than a long and informative/contemplative post? someone noted that i probably ought to remind/inform people of where i stand in terms of relationships (wherein relationship = any level of relationship with another person and is not exclusive to romantic/sexual involvements). after all, many of you either never knew me single or don't much recall that time of my life or your place in my life has changed (e.g. gone from "guy i was rude... read more