Dear Austinites, I've been lurking in this community a while; I don't post or comment much. But I feel the need all a sudden. I'm one of those "old men" (38½, actually) who's wondering where to go to meet people and not just get drunk. I'm posting here not to spam, but because I don't really know what to do. I've lived in Austin since May 2003, but I still like I'm new here. I got divorced (no kids) a few years back, had a girlfriend for a while, but have been out of the dating scene for too... read more