This is a fairly long, detailed description of preparing for a fairly intense SM scene. If that makes you uncomfortable, don't read it. I've been around the leather community for over 15 years now, and I learned a long time ago that there are scenes that I enjoy and scenes that I shouldn't be doing. I like playing with sensations and intensity, sometimes a lot of intensity, but it has to be done in a way that feels cooperative and affectionate. I don't play power games. I laugh and snuggle a... read more
