And, lest the last entry gets misinterpreted (grossly) as some sort of anti-abortion manifesto: it ain’t. I have had an abortion since my first pregnancy. I wanted that baby, too, maybe a little bit. And that hurts to say, a little – I usually talk about that abortion in positive terms, because it was positive – which isn’t to say it still wasn’t hard. It took me forever to decide – I terminated right at the end of the twelve week mark, and I kept obsessing over all the dumb developmental... read more
