"iIt is not what we carry with us, but what we let go that defines who we are." Charlie Crewes from the TV show "Life" I'm sure this is a zen or Buddhist proverb or saying. It bore repeating. IĀ find myself in the midst of decorating my home for the holidays. I LOVE the lights, but I'm not sure if it's a love of the joy of light, or a celebration of purchasing frenzy, maybe it's a celebration of being in a home that makes me happy. I moved in to a house from an apartment in June, and I'm still continuously... read more