Okay this is a big topic in my book it seems like every discussion ends up in this corner. Why do we have them? I particularly wish we did not have them. See before i got married it seemed like they were more or less decent to me. Now i have married the only boy and all hell breaks loose i am tired of it i am tired of trying with them. Why do we have to have holidays there why do I end up the one alone at the table is it love that i do this for? I really don't understand. Over countless times... read more