had a lengthy discussion with my beloved friend SB about the various artists with whom she has had affairs. their relations are intimately enmeshed in the nature of the work: an exclusive diet of only the most cutting edge philosopher-artists, mostly in tech and bio art. i suggested that its actually the work she is erotically drawn to, its the work she wants, not the artist. we both agreed its all about verbs. but this morning i feel sad again, why should i believe the next person who says they... read more