We are driven, all of us, by the urge to make more humans and to keep alive if we can. Our interest in the gender we are attracted to results from this urge. Even if we have no desire to reproduce, or a loathing for the idea, nevertheless, the mechanism of our desire is part of the process that makes babies. Thus, an adult in her reproductive years is expected to have sex or at least to want to. What if she doesn't? Libido is an odd thing. Women are supposed to be receptive to sex, but no... read more