There comes a point where you just have to tell. It is a secret that must be shared. You tell the safest ones first. For some reason I cried when I told one of my cousins. That was exceptionally hard. Every Gay man has two births. The first is biological. The second birth is when you know you are gay and start acting that way. Life progresses along the stages. If you are lucky then Physical Adolescence coincides with Gay Adolescence. In my case they were separated by 18 years. I know one man who... read more