subtitle: How America's Obsession with Virginity is Hurting Young Women by Jessica Valenti. Many of you, I'm sure, can guess why I picked this one up. As a refresher for others; I was raised in a highly conservative Christian patriarchal household. My father talked about sex constantly, in the thou-shalt-not way, and had several lovely analogies to convince me to stay 'pure.' Let me give you a few. 1) Your virginity is like a rose. Every time you make out with a guy, or kiss him, you're tearing... read more