this is a picture of my hair at the moment (ah, my face is not that strange looking in real life) i want to make it blonder. it's just too red right now, and i want it more blonde in some spots. something like this: the problem is i just don't know how to go about it. usually i just use box dyes but whenever i use blonde box dyes they come out like, bright orange. so i think if i did it myself i'd have to do the whole bleach and toner thing and to do that i'd have to go to sally's and figure... read more